Sunday, November 1, 2009

If you don't wear hijab in public, you shouldn't wear it while praying

I wrote previously about how I think that wearing hijab might not be necessary during prayer and that it might have a negative impact on our perception of God. Here I would like to stress that this negative impact is even worse for women who don't wear hijab in front of men.

I think it is a great contradiction for women who don't wear hijab in front of men to wear it while praying, because it signifies that God is more aroused or more offended by their hair and bodies than men.

There is no ayah and no strong hadith about how to dress while praying, yet there are two ayahs in the Quran that talk about dressing modestly in front of men (even though the interpretations of modesty may differ.)

So why put more emphasis on hijab during prayer than hijab in front of men?

The opposite makes more sense to me. But if you're not going to wear hijab in front of men then why wear it in front of God and why assume that it is only during prayer that He can see you?

I wouldn't wear it at all in either situation.

This promotes the perception of God as anthropomorphic—having human characteristics. Wearing hijab exclusively during prayer degrades God's image to human characteristics of the most degradable kind—the sexual aspect.

This contradicts what Islamic prayer is supposed to promote with the repetition of "Allahu Akbar" up to 24 times during each prayer. This is meant to expand our perception of God higher and higher.

This practice also assumes that God, like men, only has two eyes that can't see through clothes, someone we only meet occasionally and who we can elude if we do a good job covering our bodies.

How long is God's beard?

How does the requirement of Muslims to wear hijab during prayer affect our perception of God?

God created the Universe, and that is why some Sufis and other religions equate God with the Universe. Yet orthodox Muslims consider this to be blasphemy, because, to them, God is greater than the universe. If so, why don't you treat Him as if He is greater than the universe? I know the universe is not offended by my ankles or my hair, so why should God be?

I can't imagine anything greater than the universe. All I know is my experience. When I am thinking of God as the universe, life and existence, I am not self-conscious about my body. So why do I feel self-conscious about my body when I am praying even though God is supposed to be greater than the universe?

Teaching women to be self-conscious about their bodies during prayer depicts God as not only a man, but a man with a long beard and a frown.

The longer a man's beard is, the more he is likely to be offended by a woman's hair, and the more we women need to cover up in front of him. Men who don't have beards are less likely to be offended by our hair. We are comfortable in their presence and they are comfortable with ours. Religious men who have a short beard are easier to be with. They will not be offended if they see parts of our hair coming out of our scarves. As for the men with the long beards, we have to cover up really well in front of them. They are also fearful to be with. They will react with a vengeance if they see something they don't like. Those are the men whom we imagine to be like God, based on how we are told to act when we are praying.

Based on that, how long do we think God's beard is?

I know what some readers would say: "astaghfer Ullahal Azeem; this is blasphemy!" Yes, it is blasphemy to consider God as a man in our words, so why do we treat Him as a man in our actions?

It seems that some of us have the perception of God as having a mentality that is slightly greater than the clerics who issue fatwas for us—quite unlike the Universe which is awe inspiring when we contemplate it.

Why is this a big deal?

It's not just an issue of putting on a headscarf and it's not just a ritual.

I think this issue is important because it has a profound impact on our belief system "Aqidah."

I think we should be mindful and aware of any acts that promote the concept of an anthropomorphic god; one with human characteristics.

I also think we should promote acts that expand our perception of God to a higher level. God is supposed to be "Greater" than the universe, since He created it. We shouldn't be thinking of Him as if He is one of us.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your approaches in this and other posts are on target. Keep up the good work.

Anonymous said...

With respect to your opinion of wearing the hijab during prayer, I highly suggest looking at the reasons of wearing the hijab in the first place.
The reasons of wearing the hijab are not just to limit the attraction from men (don’t we also then need something to limit our attraction for men?) we should not think we are wearing it for men in the first place. The intention is to wear it for God, now the end results will be to limit attraction from men (in order to prevent indecent acts or thoughts) and to force men not to judge a woman by her appearance and to evaluate her by her personality, character, and morals; but wearing the hijab is also to have self-respect, be humble, respectful, and modest. The hijab demands respect, I know when a girl wearing the hijab is around, guys will stop swearing and cracking bad jokes. That also does not mean that not wearing the hijab will result in more disrespect but the hijab definitely assures it – of course if the girl is wearing it right.
Trying not to get of topic, now..
Why do you think we are required to wear the hijab even infront of the blind? The elderly?
Is it so we don’t attract them? The blind can’t see..the elderly would likely see us as their children or grandchildren..
Now when we are praying (not just the do3a2 but also the salat) we need to be only thinking about God, so we need to be modest because we are being connected on a deeper level with God, we are not even looking at him as we would look at a human to even consider any of what you call the degradable sexual aspect. So the reasons of wearing the hijab during prayer can differ based on your view of the intention and reasons of wearing the hijab.
On top, we know and believe that God sees us everywhere not only while praying but we wear it while praying because we would be in a connection with him, praying, making doa’s, asking for anything. The hijab gives a feeling of peacefulness, humility and purity during prayer.
Even the women who wear the hijab outside..end up taking the hijab off at home..then they end up wearing the hijab again for prayer..which would go back to your point -why assume that it is only during prayer that He can see you? But it is not perceived this way..
Now we also make the wodo2 before prayer but that does not mean we believe that God sees us only while praying so we have to be clean? The wodo2 gives the spiritual feeling and purity plus the connection that will be about to start when you pray. That also does not mean we are dirty the rest of the time. I’m giving this example so you can compare it with the hijab.
Why do we make wodo2 even if we just took a shower? Is it because we are STILL dirty?
There are many things we can make discussions about that will only take us downhill..it’s like we are dragging ourselves to a deeper misunderstanding when we start talking like “ahel el kalam”..
I’m not wearing the hijab in public and I always need the feeling of remembering that I’m a Muslim which I would get while praying. I need to keep wearing it every now and then to remind myself of it and to make it easier to wear it in the future also.
I don’t know why the discussion took the road of giving God human characteristics if we wear the hijab during prayer, we should not even look or think of Him that way in the first place.
Do the Christians believe God is only at the church? That’s why some cover when they are inside or are about to be married?..do they believe God will be looking at them in a humanely way? NO..no..no..
Please don’t take my words as making you wrong. But I totally see this topic from a different perspective.

Evan malkawi said...

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Evan malkawi

Anonymous said...

amazing I love the original post yet I agree with the anonymous post as well.. I had a lot to learn here.. thank you sisters! (or brothers if anyone of yall are a male)

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